How do you punish a 9 yr old? What type of system do you have at home? Is it structured?

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Q. My close friend has a 9yr old who is acting out. He is refusing to go to school, will not help around the house, and beats up on the younger siblings (more than usual!). When he gets mad or something doesn't happen the way he wants he will throw kitchen chairs across the room at people!
He is acting out because he has 3 younger siblings and feels that he is not loved. However the parents have gone so far to make sure that he gets at least 2 hours alone w/o anyone other than his mom and dad. This worked for a week!! Things have gotten worse and worse. They are looking for a system to help punish and reward him. A structured system to try, because now a days you can't spank kids!
What has worked for you? ANy suggestions?
How do you know that there is something medically wrong with him?
He just started the puberty thing this year and his parents have chalked it all up to "his change". He has even became violent with parents and other family members.


Answer
there is a couple things you can do

1) give him a timeout kinda worked for me
2) ban all junk food,candy and make them eat veggies
3) i don't suggest this one but you can pay him candy to be nice that all ways worked on me
4) you can spank him but not to hard though
5) you can try talking to him or yelling depends on you
6)take away what he loves the most

Is it OK to Use Canned Spray Paint on Unfinished Furniture?




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My wife and I have been brush-painting our unfinished Alder kitchen chairs by hand, and we're getting drips and uneven blotches everywhere. If we want to speed up the process and make things look nicer, do we have to invest in a Spray Gun, or can we use good ol' canned spray paint?


Answer
First off the canned sprays cover poorly unless you buy the top of the line and then you'll go broke because a single can does not go very far and you'll be buying can after can . They are good for caned furniture and furniture with spindles etc. that are difficult to paint by hand . A high end spray gun is a great investment time wise but how often will you use it after the furniture project is finished . For furniture with flat surfaces primarily ,you are best off with a good qualty brush and alkyl based paint . Latex is certainly easier to use ,but suffers a little from durability problems altho they have improved the enamels . The blotches are due to alder having uneven porosity -just sand between coats (and the drips )and as the surface builds up the color will even out , (you probably didn't start off with a primer coat which would have saved a lot of grief ,but your first coat of base color can be considered your primer coat ) Get a good random orbit sander and go all over everything ,dust well and repaint .
To prevent drips ,don't load the brush up too much ,and if you don't mind a slightly pebbled surface ,you can apply the paint with short pile rollers (they make foam rollers also for enamel painting and call them smooth surface and they come in 4 and 6 inch sizes )
Most important is to take your time and brush the paint out well ,don't just slop it on in a hurry .




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